Take a look at the two seemingly identical images above and tell me what the difference is… well if you didn’t notice there is a women missing in the one on the left. This Brazilian woman is Fernanda Rocha and she is a lesbian that just became a citizen of the United States this season. The interesting thing about these images is that it is the same thing, just with and without her. She is clearly different from these women providing a representation not only for the gay community, but also for women of color to have a main role on this show.
As empowering as this may seem, there is one problem. She is NOT considered one of the housewives. Sure she isn’t married and doesn’t have kids, but neither is Gretchen Rossi. Fernanda is in almost every episode and attends all of the events with the housewives, but she is more so portrayed as a housewife groupie instead of a housewife.
This is not only demoralizing the gay community, but also women of color because it shows discrimination based on these two things. I will give it to Bravo for finally adding some diversity in to the show instead of all the women portraying the white, blonde haired skinny traits, but they should have taken the next step in making her a housewife. Without doing that they are just continuing to set back the pace for the LBGTQ communities attempt to move towards equality because with medias large influence on today’s cultures this can be extremely damaging. Not only does this show that The Real Housewives praises you stereotypical white blonde haired woman, but it shows as a women that is a lesbian or a different race you will be discriminated against and left out of the group.
This show does have another reference to the gay community, but it proves to also be just as demoralizing. Alexis Bellino has a gay assistant, Dylan, for her dress line and when Jim is unable to attend Peggy Tanous’ dinner party with her she takes Dylan as her ‘date’. Gretchen Rossi’s boyfriend Slade Smiley also could not attend this dinner party so she brought a gay man with her as well. At first, just as with Fernanda, this appears to be a stride forward for the gay community because they are being represented through the media. But this quickly makes a turn for the worst because the ladies make a comment about how every woman needs a gay man as an accessory. In making this statement they are making a mockery of the gay community and making it appear as though gays are less then human in calling them accessories. This could easily affect how other women and men portray a gay man in society because "regardless of the stereotype portrayed in the films, studies have found that the public continues to be influenced by what they are seeing, with the portrayals either affirming or helping to construct their underlying belief system" (Hammer 33). Based on the face that this show provides such little exposure to the gay community, those who watch this show may quickly form a stereotype that all gays are like the few that were depicted on The Real Housewives of Orange County.